Monday, January 4

lies... so much lies

I just finished unpacking
Earlier today i was reading All I want.. again
I am listening to Adam Lambert on TV
Looking at my phone.. hoping it doesnt ring
Not now atleast and thats just because i wanna watch the secret life on the american teenager and its starting in a few minutes
I started following it like a week ago
and i love it already
Happy New Year people!
I was with with my Mom all this while
She keeps complaining that i dont eat
And i remembered my last post
So my Boo read my blog
all of it
and he said "am never gonna read your bog again"
Sometimes i think i have the bestest friends one can ever wish for
Its freezing outside, so much
There is a disturbing gist i need to share with you guys
This girl from my former school wanted to break up with her boyfriend
Her boyfriend of 4 years, really nice, faithful and smart
Her Reason: Her Dad suggested she gets married to his friends son and she can never 'disobey' her dad
The truth of the matter, she thinks Mr Family friend is richer than her boyfriend even though he is older, afterall all her friends are getting married
Her Problem: She cant break up with him cos her conscience wouldnt let her after all he has been through for her
See this chick talking about conscience when her eye is scopping the BMW wedding gift, honeymoon in Dubai and Switzerland...
So her 'friends' advice her to do a 'ya kopsa'
ya kopsa = he effed up literally
apparently thats a new way of breaking up with people
that only a few nasty ones know about
And its been going on for a while
A totally random girl, probably in the same uni or outside is paid to sleep with him
My mind is thinking somewhere around the line hooker much?
She probably starts hitting on him in the club, class... wherever
The whole process takes about a week
Sometimes it doesnt really get to the sleeping part
somewhere around the kisses and make out session
Miss Girlfriend comes around

and does the whole act
" I cant believe this!!! how could you?!"
Creating a scene, and officially breaking up with him
Leaving the poor guy feeling bad about
'Cheating' on her
or almost cheating on her

How unfair is this? seriously?
So, this case went bad when after weeks of him trying to get back to his girlfriend, apologising while shes recovering from the so called heartbreak enjoying a guilt free shopping spree for her wedding
A friend of hers who felt the guy did not deserve such pain told him the whole story
and even brought the hooker.. sorry other girl to verify the story

Hmm life
Very intersting

Hey guys gotta run, The secret life just started
Much love


Nice Anon said...

I just got confused reading all that scandal. happy new year to you!!

sweetness said...

lol i can imagin, some big scandal
happy new year!

Fabulo-la said...

A ya WHAT???? R u kidding me? Jisos lawd have mercy....

TayneMent said...

LMAO.. I can only assume that this is in Naija. Na wa o..ya kposa you say? God help us all.

I watch secret life too.. I got hooked on it in nigeria, although it got annoying at some point.

honey91 said...

that is soo mean!
poor nigga..

Myne Whitman said...

Well isn't it too late since girl is already wedding shopping? Or does the other babe want to scope the now single guy?

I watched The secret life in the summer and really enjoyed it. Children having children...smh

leggy said...

lmao.for some reason this story cracked me up..aww, i love nigerians.

My World said...

Toh,this 1 na big ya kposa o!
But nawa 4 dem babes sha.....

muyiwa said...

You ladies,i am speechless on this

CerebrallyBusy said...

the girl shld just break up wif him
but if the guy is faithful like u sed
he shouldnt even so much as kiss d geh sef lol...i dont know jo

Sassy Trends said...

WHy you no dey chop ehn?
Abeg dey chop
Mummy's pet..xoxo

Lady X said...

Ok it's unfair right, but the fact is the dude fell for it so he's not exactly Mr. Perfect Fiance now is he? Or is all this hypothetical? LOL even parents nowadays are telling their children to go for the richer guy haha!

sweetness said...

I am not even kidding true story, May God have Mercy on them

Yeah its in Naija oh lol
you can tell right? so much drama :-)
Yeah, it has traces of being annoying already i just cant stop myself lol

tell me about it, thats so unfair, just so she could get a guilt free pass out of the relationship

Myne Whitman
yeah its more than late, the wedding is next month, she just saw that the guy was killing himself with guilt so she decided to tell him but her inner motives... i wonder oh? girls? lol you can never be sure. Children having children lol... and complications :)

I know right? Thinking about it, its really kninda funny, lol Gotta love us eh?

sweetness said...

My World
Lol big sun kopsa
Its just unfortunate

Not only girls, apparently guys do it too. They get a friend to start hitting on the girlfriend they are tired of, and sleep with her so they can accuse her of cheating and break up with her, this thing has been around for a very long time unfortunately

I know, i thought about it too, if he is so faithful like everyones saying then why did he fall for that? when they are done they blame the devil smh

i dey chop oh
true. i eat... but you know mummys now, you can never eat enough they make everything look like a feast lol

exactly! meaning he was just a good pretender as well or this girl was hot, apparently her parents never knew her boyfriend, it was just a moment of parents talking about son marrying daughter as they were friends nd all that

shorty said...

Damn!! that was so unfair,poor guy.

sweetness said...

yeah shorty very unfair! :(

The Girl with the Red Hair said...

It unfair to the guy but he is also not mr perfect, the chick found his weakness and got him there. Happy new year

Gee said...

wow dats just deeply wrong!
na real scandal--
even tho the guy messed up by falling for the trick--that was still not a fair game by the girl
happy nu year to u too!

sweetness said...

The Girl with the Red Hair
Exactly! Indeed she found his weakness and she used it against him. Happy New year dear

Very wrong
Yeah he messed up too, but what she did was just plain wrong
Happy New year!!


Suru said...

wow wonders shall never end oh

Andrea said...

Hey sweetness, make sure you eat, Dont you know food is good for you.. As for the girl... oh well.

Rita said...

Without mincing words, that way of breaking up is not nice. And making marriage decisions becos of money...not my first 10 recommendations.

Happy New Year. Why did your boo not ever want to read ur blog?

sweetness said...

yup wonders will never end

i do eat. honest. :) thanks for saying that

Yeah its a not so nice thing to do, but what can we say, whats done is done lol
Well he `stumbled` on it one day and he decided to read it, n felt he had read enough

Rene said...

lawd have mercy on people these days cuz they're terrible ontop bmw, paris and dubia abi na swiss?

~PakKaramu~ said...

Happy new year 2010 to you

sweetness said...

Lol i cant shout may God have mercy

Happy new year

Thanx everyone thanks for dropping by

JoaR said...

Poor guy? oh pls! Like others have said, if he was "mr faithful" and oh so perfect, how did he fall for the plan? A bit extreme way to go, but people have done worse lol

doll said...

is dis real? wow! happy new yr btw

Drrama Queen said...

Omg seriously? o.O Never thought such stuff happens .. Poor guy!!